O my God! Grant me perfect detachment unto Thee and strengthen me with the light of joy in Thy presence.
Prayers for detachment: freedom through love
prayer for detachment
Editorial introduction
I am weary of self, one of these prayers says; make me attached to Thee and detached from all the world. Detachment, as the Bahá’í writings pray for it, is not the cooling of desire but its redirection, and the language is startlingly the language of love: free me from the fetters of self and passion and make me a captive of Thy beauty, catch me in Thy snare, let me forget all but Thee. Bahá’u’lláh asks that the idols of corrupt inclination be cut down and that His servants come to dispense with everything except God; ‘Abdu’l-Bahá adds that the heart be sanctified even from attachment to friend and stranger alike, so that it may sing like a nightingale. What such freedom produces is not withdrawal but joy, steadfastness and deeds done for no motive but love, which is why the Bhagavad Gita’s counsel to perform the action that must be done without clinging to its fruit sits so naturally beside these petitions [1]. Inward freedom of this sort sustains rather than loosens the bonds of a shared life, and the journey continues toward detachment and renunciation as a way of being, toward patience, and toward the detachment that frees a teacher of the Cause.
Selected passages
I am weary of self - make me attached to You and detached from all the world.
O my Lord! Assist this sinful one to be detached from them that are estranged from Thee, and occupy me rather with Thy love. Free me from the bonds and fetters of self and passion and make me a captive of the love of Thine All-Glorious Beauty, that I may forget all else but Him and become intoxicated with the wine of Thine adoration.
O servant of Baha! Turn to the Kingdom of Mystery, the All-Glorious Dominion, and offer up this prayer:
O Lord! O Kind One! O Pure God! O Merciful, All-Merciful One! Grant us a bounty, a gift, a mercy, and a blessing that we may become free from all else and be captured in Thy snare.
Let me forget all but Thee, fall silent to all mention save Thine, become intoxicated and bewildered from the cup of Thy love.
I beseech Thee, O God of existence and Beloved of hearts and souls, by Thy Name which hath precedence over all names and by Thy Command which hath encompassed all things, to make known to Thy servants what Thou hast intended for them through Thy generosity and ordained for them through Thy grace. Then deliver them from the idle fancies of self and passion and from the fire of transgression and wickedness.
Remember thy Lord with this prayer: Glory be unto Thee, O my God, my Beloved and my Purpose! I beseech Thee by Thy beauty and by Thy call and by Thy remembrance, then by Thy Name through which were rent asunder the veils of idle fancies, that Thou make me detached from the world and its promptings lest I turn unto it and turn away from the Beloved of the worlds.
I beseech Thee by Thy Name through which Thou didst take unto Thyself the spirits of all things and didst give them life anew through what Thou hadst ordained in the heaven of Thy decree, and through which those who have recognized Thy unity hastened to the scene of annihilation and the sincere ones to the place of sacrifice, and offered up their souls in their love for Thy beauty and their longing for reunion with Thee and attainment unto Thy presence - that Thou mayest make me to be of them who have detached themselves from all names and have clung to Thy Self, the Most Exalted, the Most Glorious.
Deliver these souls from the world of fancy and guide them to reality so they may seek after truth, become distant from the world of matter and draw near to the Kingdom, emerge from darkness into the realm of light. Deliver them from the darkness of contingent existence and illumine them with the lights of the realm of transcendence. Make them manifestations of light and dawning-places of fruitage. Make them detached from all else save Thee and acquainted with mysteries.
I beseech Thee by the lamp which Thou didst kindle with the oil of Thy wisdom and didst place upon the niche of Thy bounty, and by which Thou didst illuminate the sincere ones among Thy creatures, that Thou make me wholly detached unto Thee, clinging to the cord of Thy favors, enkindled with the fire of Thy love, illumined by the lights of Thy countenance, ascending to the heaven of Thy self-subsistence, and rising to the atmosphere of Thy lordship, so that there may remain within my soul no remembrance save the remembrance of Thee, no description save Thy description, and no deed except that which is done for love of Thee and Thy good-pleasure.
Enable them to stand firm in Thy Cause, to be steadfast and immovable in Thy service, to be sincere in obeying Thee, to be detached from this worldly existence, and to be freed from every remembrance and thought that relates to the lowest depths.
I beseech Thee by the breezes of Thy verses and the pearls hidden in the ocean of Thy bounty to make me detached from all else but Thee, speaking in Thy praise and standing firm in Thy service.
I beseech Thee to make me detached from all else save Thee and speaking Thy praise amongst Thy servants.
Say: O my God! I beseech Thee by the Dawning-Place of Thy revelation, the Dayspring of Thine inspiration, and the Source of Thy Command, to make me, in all conditions, one who soars in the atmosphere of Thy remembrance, detached from all else but Thee.
O Lord! Send down upon me from the clouds of Thy grace that which will make me detached from all else save Thee and draw me nigh unto the seat of Thy mercy and favors.
Then grant him, O my God, that which will detach him from all else but Thee and enable him to attain unto the shore of Thy nearness, for in Thy hands is the dominion of all things and Thou art, verily, powerful over all things.
I beseech Thee by the Name through which the lovers soared aloft and the call was raised throughout all regions and the yearning ones were consumed by the pain of separation, to send down from the heaven of Thy bounty that which will cause me to hold fast unto Thee and to be independent of all else besides Thee.
Then send down upon them from the clouds of Thy mercy and the heaven of Thy grace that which will make them independent of all else save Thee and detached from all except Thyself.
O my Lord! Ordain for me from Thy Most Exalted Pen that which will render me detached from all else save Thee and holding fast to Thy Most Strong Cord.
I beseech Thee, O my Lord, by Thy Most Great Signs and by the lights of Thy countenance, O Thou Lord of all mankind, to make me detached from all else save Thee, to hold fast to Thy cord, and to cling to the hem of Thy grace.
I beseech Thee by the movement of Thy Pen of destiny, and by the traces of Thy Pen, and by Thy most exalted attributes, and by the Dawning-Places of Thy revelation in the kingdom of creation, to make me detached from all else save Thee and holding fast to the cord of Thy bounty.
I beseech Thee, O Lord of existence, by the stars of the heaven of Thy wisdom and the suns of the horizons of Thy utterance, and by the light of Thy Cause whereby Thy earth and heaven were illumined, and by the pearls hidden in the shells of the ocean of Thy power, to make me in all conditions detached from all else but Thee and clinging to the hem of the robe of Thy pardon and generosity.
O my Lord! Sever the cord of my attachment to all things, sanctify me from all things, detach me from all things, and make my face purely turned to Thy gracious countenance, that I may be cut off from all else but Thee in this mighty station.
Then recite this prayer:
Glory be unto Thee, O my God! I beseech Thee by the lights of Thy Beauty, by the splendours of the Sun of Thy bounty and Thy gifts, to cut me off from all that Thou hast created in the heavens and on the earth, and to make me wholly devoted to Thy luminous, most luminous Countenance, and sincere in Thy exalted, most exalted religion---O Thou Who wast sanctified above all that can be known or spoken, and above all that tongues can testify.
When thou hast been privileged to hearken unto My sweetest call, say:
Praise be to Thee, O Lord of all beings and Sovereign of the kingdoms of justice and bounty! I beseech Thee by the ocean of Thy verses, and the sun of Thy loving-kindness, and by Thy resplendent and radiant light, and Thy unique and wondrous Cause, to ordain for me that which will make me detached from all else but Thee and holding fast to the hem of the robe of Thy mercy.
Say: O my God! I am he who hath detached himself from all else save Thee and hath fled to the shore of the might of Thy mercy, which hath preceded all created things. O my God! Drive not this poor one from the door of Thy riches, nor this thirsty one from the Kawthar of Thy grace and the Tasnim. O my God! Leave me not to myself and my desires, then rend asunder the veils that have prevented me from arriving at the shore of the might of Thy mercy.
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Questions to carry forward
- What do the paired images of freedom and captivity reveal about the kind of detachment sought in these prayers?
- How could the desire to serve become freer from self-interest while remaining attentive to the people being served?
- What does the Gita’s connection between detachment and action add to the reading, and where do the prayerful and instructional forms ask different things of a reader?
- How might the neighboring prayers for married couples help distinguish inward freedom from withdrawal of affection or responsibility?